By Dr. Scott Zarcinas, Founder, 818: Unlocking Your Life

For years, I was my own worst enemy.

Every choice felt like a battle. Every doubt was a reason to question myself. Every stumble seemed like proof I wasn’t enough (only later did I realise I was ‘seeking’ evidence for not being ‘good enough’, but that’s another story for another time).

Back then, I thought pushing harder was the way to go (It’s what we’re taught, isn’t it?).

I thought that being tough on myself would get me there. I also thought that letting go meant giving up, that it was weakness.

But here’s what I’ve learned by holding onto these false beliefs:
-> Fighting yourself just wears you out. You can’t force your way to peace. You can’t bully yourself into a life that feels right.

Real change starts when you stop wrestling with who you are and start accepting and acknowledging what’s true for you (read: values, purpose, meaning, passion, priorities).

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Reset: Letting Go is the Key

So here’s the truth:
-> Letting go isn’t quitting.

Letting go is listening to what’s already inside you—your clarity, your energy, your passion. It’s swimming with the current instead of against it.

When you stop fighting yourself, you stop feeling so heavy. You start finding ease and elegance. Not because life gets perfect, but because you’re living more like the real you.

-> Try this now: notice one moment where you’re pushing too hard. Pause. Ask, “What feels true for me right now?”

Then take one small step toward that. See how it feels.

So, if you’re interested in learning how to let go to achieve real, lasting progress, start by doing the complimentary prep check (link below), the first step to reset your life.

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